Lets start before the beginning, The Decision, lets call it. Joe and I have been considering having a child for a while. It never seemed like the right time as I am very career driven and I kept setting goals in that area of my life. Joe on the other hand was ready. One day Joe asked me “what would make you feel ready?” That was just it, I didn’t know. I didn’t know what it took to have a healthy pregnancy, all the rules, how I would feel, and in general what to expect or what I was signing up for for the next 9 months. I decided to…